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Parents expectations, child growth, and development
When parents expectations is too high it affects child growth and development. This is the fact but most of the parents do not think about it.
Parents Expectations from Son
When children go to grades 10th or 12th, parents think that
they are in the class and have to study all year. Even at the beginning of the year, it is decided
how many marks would be earned (scored) by the child?
Some parents even begin to see the building of a child's
hospital as soon as the 12th grade begins.
The
mother is in a very bad condition because her child is in grades 10th or 12th. She is restricted to use mobiles,
TV, social programs, and relatives are banned to come home for the whole year. Mother is planning a
day-to-day schedule for her child and for herself.
A wise parent
But
what a surprise it is that children's abilities are not taken into account in
all these things. Some sensible parents who watch a few videos on YouTube,
listening to or watching two or four career counseling programs have different
emotions.
Such
parents look very scared in their every move, not just in speaking but also in
their question we clearly see the anxiety, doubts, and fears. These
things are bombarded on them in the Career Counseling program. They do not
interfere in choosing a child’s career; they say "let him allow to choose
his career, who will be responsible for some bad incident tomorrow?"
Parents high expectations
Is it appropriate for parents to set expectations that are
not up to the mark?
Also, children who have no experience in life, can they
choose the best career?
How realistic is the information found on the Internet?
Once a career is out of hand, will there be a chance again?
Now you say parents are wrong kids too, so what is right?
Take guidance from a trained person or to attain career
counseling seminars.
Testing Children's Tantrums
Reading various guide books. There are still many options
available in the market.
But what a joke it is, you will not do anything for your
children's career.
We are always expecting to get readymade. Due to this, the
careers of those who sell facilities such as counseling seminars, mentorship,
guidance books are set very well.
What is the quality of your career counselor?
What are its education and experience?
Is that person trustful or not?
Before
that, we do not think whether this person has knowledge of that area or not.
This is the kind of person who tells us the information he has heard from
somewhere, and he himself has not checked whether this information is true.
Don't hit the head,
The truth of parents expectations
All is true; you know it but never
thought of it. What is the proper method? Choosing a career in an area where
you have an interest or a skill.
But just because you are interested
does not work, because interest varies with time and circumstance. so choosing
a career on the basis of the interest will not be appropriate.
The correct way is to select the field
in which you have interest and skill. Maybe that's why we see that many
non-graduate persons have gone to the top in their field.
It is worth remembering that, always
better to be at the top in a field of less competition than to be an average person in a field where there is a lot of competition. Here, competition is
what we call a field with scope, and less competition is a field with less
scope.
So instead of spending time on what to
do in a career, be sure to gain expertise in the field which is convenient for
you. Here convenient means your ability, family background, financial
conditions.
Work hard for four to six years of the
degree, then you can spend the remaining fifty to sixty years of fun.
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Best time for child growth and development
When does a career start?
1) 10th
The real mistake is here, the actual age to decide
children's future is certainly at an early age. But parents are
remembering this in 10th or
12th.
Now many parents say that they are paying attention to
children's future since childhood.
But what do you mean by giving attention to a child?
Is it appointing a tutor for kids?
Giving them the toys they want? or by choosing a school that
has a high fee.
No, you are avoiding your responsibility and only keep the
children happy.
The real mistake is here, the actual age to decide children's future is certainly at an early age. But parents are remembering this in 10th or 12th.
As an example,
My
son reads Marathi from the time he was two and a half years old, without even
stumbling. how is it possible? It's easy. I have a habit of reading the
newspaper in the morning.
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Child Growth and Development Factors
Child growth and development generally depend upon parenting style. it is sometimes confusing to understand parenting style in such a case simply follow these tricks.
Life skills for children
Why make your child a puzzle block which fit in a particular place and a particular puzzle game.
From
a childhood makes him perfect so that whatever field he goes in, his performance will be best.
Habituate
them for self-study
Parents
should take at least one hour of study every day. Don't force for study, if he is
not interested in the study don't punish him. Don't watch TV or mobile when he
is studying. Parents who do not have the time for children should make a lot of
money, but do not expect the bright future of their children.
Be gentle with children
Don't
let your social or family dispute get exposed before him. Avoid saying bad
things about others. Don't talk or watch vulgar in his presence. give respect
to elders in your home that will creat respect for you in his mind.
Don't irritated or annoyed him
It is never appropriate for a stubborn child to be punished;
when The children hustle if you punish him then what is the difference between
children and you. This is the age factor, he is 5 years and you are more than
30 years. Remember when you were 5 years old you also a naughty boy.
In any case, it is worthwhile to explain peacefully, experience this, and see that
children will listen.
Keep promoting him constantly
From an early age, pay attention to everything he does, do
something that he will win while playing with you, notify him that he is smart
in his studies. Tell him repeatedly that he can do better.
Increase his practical knowledge
Take him along with you to the market; keep him with you
when you are paying the bill. No matter how rich you are, let him know the value of
money. Never discuss in front of children that you earn a lot.
Conclusion
Conclusion
And yes most important, your 10th or 12th marks are only important for the next admission, the whole life does not depend on it so don't get depressed even if you get low marks. Forget all that and get back to work.
In the 90% of cases parents expectations are limited up to 10th or 12th marks, after that they are not concern about child growth and development.
In the 90% of cases parents expectations are limited up to 10th or 12th marks, after that they are not concern about child growth and development.
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